Something that has come out each year to decorate our home at Christmas are 3 red & white Christmas Stockings.
The kids laughed at us for doing this but I have never seen them refuse the little bits and pieces that were placed inside for them like Toblerone bars, boxes of Maltesers, Smarties, etc.
Yes we all like chocolate in this family.
They also think we are very predictable because of what would be shaken out of these stockings except for the couple of different little non-edible surprises each year but as I said before - We all like chocolate in this family.
Of course now we have added a daughter-in-law and a son-in-law to the family so they get the same treatment as our two sons and daughter but we use Gift Bags instead of the three stockings which now are hung up simply as decorations. Hung up mostly to remind us of the old days as we can be a sentimental lot in our family too - okay - I can be sentimental.
It is good to look back and think of previous Christmases, about the happy times and the family as it grew and the coming together with others at that special time and to look now at these three stockings and say "Yes, once we were a family with 3 children and now we have grown."
Of course when we say grown we don't just mean in number from 5 to 10 because of the three grandchildren or in size because yes our boys are tall like their dad but also grown in maturity.
When we look back at these 3 stockings now we thank God for how our children have matured in their relationships with God as well.
So often Christmas is a time of what we want NOW when we think of presents and food but we need to focus back on Why we actually have Christmas each year.
We do need to be predictable and think about the same things each Christmas.
Christmas is the remembering back to Who came to earth and Why He came.
Jesus came as a baby to live and grow to be the man who was also God, the only one who could then take on our sin and punishment to be our Saviour.
Looking at our 3 stockings our prayer is that our three children and all their families (even those yet to come) will know Who came to earth that first Christmas and Why He came.