Sunday
Wednesday
The True Christmas - A Dose of Encouragement
Today I'm going to tell you about another decoration I love putting on my tree every year because this one tells us about The True Christmas.
Previously I have been writing about some of our Christmas Tree Decorations.
We had 3 Sleighs for Christmas and A Fan for Christmas
These two along with this post will be hopefully be a good dose of encouragement for us all at this special Christmas time.
All around us at this time of the year we see everything being used to represent Christmas.
We see Santas.
We see Turkeys.
We see Trees.
We see Gifts.
We see Pictures of Snow.
We see Everything becoming Red.
But we see less and less
of
The True Christmas.
of
The True Christmas.
This decoration was bought in America when we lived in Delaware so it has been on our tree for over 20 years just like the other ones in the last two posts in this series.
Yet I still remember the day I bought it.
I was with my friend Suzanne in a Christmas Shop she had taken me to. While we were paying for our purchases I noticed something else and as I moved away to get it I said to Suzanne
"I must lift one of those"
and I was so surprised by her reaction
"you can't say that Sandra"
I couldn't understand why she jumped in with this so quickly.
So I asked her why?
Suzanne explained that to use the word "lift" was implying shoplifting.
Suzanne knew what I had really meant but she was concerned that the shopkeeper would have heard me and not known my proper intention.
I had simply meant
I must pick up one of these to add it to my items to buy
but the way I had said it meant something else in that part of the world.
Now when I look at this Tree Decoration of Mary and Joseph with Jesus I remember three things.
Firstly I remember the Original True Christmas when Jesus came into the world.
Firstly I remember the Original True Christmas when Jesus came into the world.
Secondly I remember those 3 years we spent in America where we made new friends and shared in new Christmas time experiences.
Thirdly I remember the True Meaning of Christmas which is just the same today as it was all those years ago.
But what do others think of at Christmas?
They think of the things I listed at the start of this blog post.
They think of all the busy days and activities at this time of the year.
They think of the money that will be spent.
They think of the holiday from work.
They think of Seasons Greetings and Happy Holidays to just mean exactly what the words say.
But when they hear
I love the fact that when I went to take the picture of this decoration there were two lights right above it as if to highlight it particularly because really that is precisely what we should be doing.
Thirdly I remember the True Meaning of Christmas which is just the same today as it was all those years ago.
Why should it change?
Jesus doesn't change.
God sent His Son Jesus into the world to be our
Saviour
Redeemer
Ransom
to be
Immanuel
"God with Us"
But what do others think of at Christmas?
They think of the things I listed at the start of this blog post.
They think of all the busy days and activities at this time of the year.
They think of the money that will be spent.
They think of the holiday from work.
They think of Seasons Greetings and Happy Holidays to just mean exactly what the words say.
But when they hear
Merry Christmas
they don't think that it means exactly what it says.
They don't consider how it is the commemoration of the miracle of God coming to dwell on earth to live as a human like us so that He can do for us what no-one else could possibly do.
They don't consider how it is the commemoration of the miracle of God coming to dwell on earth to live as a human like us so that He can do for us what no-one else could possibly do.
No, they hear the words that are intended for them to hear
but they think of completely the wrong meaning of the phrase just as that shop keeper could have thought of the completely wrong meaning of my words all those years ago.
To so many people Christmas is no longer based on Christ.
So let's try to help others to actually think of
The True Meaning of Christmas
in every opportunity we have so that they may come to know
of
The True Christmas.
I pray you will know the The True Christmas this year and every year to come.
Sunday
It's God's Love #25
This is the Christmas post for my Sunday Series.
Each week I have featured a Bible verse graphic to concentrate on the Love of God.
Today I also want to share a very short video.
Perhaps you will think of a verse around God's Love as you watch the video
or perhaps you will think of God's Love extended to you and your family over the years
whichever it is
I pray you know the true meaning of God's Love this Christmas.
Labels:
Christmas,
God's love,
Jesus,
our Saviour
Wednesday
A Fan for Christmas - A Dose of Encouragement
Children make a lot of crafts at school and Sunday School especially at special times like Christmas.
How many times have you run out of magnets to attach another picture created especially for you?
Some people keep all of their children's pictures but we didn't,
we just enjoyed them at the time
and then enjoyed the next one
and the next one
and the next......
However some other things the children have made for us or bought us have been kept and one of these things is one of the decorations Fred and I put up on our Christmas Tree last week.
I have never worked out what a fan has to do with Christmas but then I suppose a lot of the decorations we have for this festive time do not really relate to Christmas time so why should this one have to.
It is gold and green and tones in with what we expect colour schemes to be at Christmas time.
It was made by our son Daniel many, many years ago and although we do not wrap it up carefully each year as we do with some of the other ornaments for the tree, it has never got damaged in all the years.
But even though this fan does not remind me especially of Christmas or the Bible it does remind me of Love.
Daniel made it carefully and it was well-made.
He gave it to us for the tree and even though this was probably prompted by his teacher, all these years later I see Love in this simple tree decoration.
I don't particularly think Daniel was thinking about how much he loved us when he gave it to us but I do know that because it was made by him that I love it.
It certainly is not because of the colours as I am not very fond of green but you see colours do not mean anything in this case. It is the fact that this was made by my son, that is special to me.
God also took delight in His Son Jesus and His actions.
Do we speak favourably about our children?
Do we tell others how much we love our children?
Do we tell our children how much we love them?
The next time you see something that was given to you by your child or made by them think about when you last told them how precious they are to you.
If it was a while ago, go tell them now.
But even more importantly
if we are trusting in Jesus and know the importance of Christmas,
the Love that was expressed at Christmas and the love later expressed by Jesus on the cross
then
are we speaking out about Christmas
and are we speaking out about Jesus
and
God's Love for us?
If you didn't read my previous blog post about our Tree Decorations you can do so at 3 Sleighs for Christmas
Labels:
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Christmas,
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Fan
Sunday
It's God's Love #24
On Sundays I write a short post consisting of a Bible Verse around
the topic of God's Love and we are coming near the end of this series now.
God's Love
is simply
the character
of God
because the
Bible
tells us that
God not only loves us
but
God is LOVE.
I'm thankful
to know that
is simply
the character
because the
Bible
tells us that
God not only loves us
but
God is LOVE.
I'm thankful
to know that
because we have
trusted in God
we have His Love in us
and we will be able to share His Love
with others.
They will know that we are Christians by our Love
which is God's Love.
Labels:
1 John 4,
Bible verse,
God is Love,
God's love,
love
Friday
An Organised Dressing Room!
The first thing we did in the dressing room when we moved into this house 4 years ago was to put in fitted wardrobes along two walls with mirrored doors which make the room brighter and bigger.
This was not as straightforward as most wardrobe fitting companies want it to be because we had slanted ceilings and it affected both walls in two different ways so some of them just said
"No, sorry we can't do that"
Well we did get it done and it was one of the best things we have done as it used up space along one wall in the room which was not tall enough for normal wardrobes and space on the other wall which we were able to use right up to the normal height of the ceiling and gave us 6 sections of wardrobes and shelving space.
It also meant that there was still plenty of space in the room for us to put up an extra double bed when there are more family coming to visit.
We use the electric EZ Bed for this.
I purchased it on a TV channel which is not the norm for me as I rather see these channels but I also got one of my best ever buys from there too - my steamer.
However because we kept meaning to get the plaster on another wall fixed and the room painted and new carpet put down I never really sorted out the wardrobes properly until now.
Yes we had one wall with huge cracks and bits of plaster always falling on the floor.
But now these cracks have been dealt with
and the room has been painted
and the wardrobes have been sorted.
Along the high wall
Left Wardrobe
Too many shirts were pushed in together and mixed up
but
a quick removal of all the short-sleeved shirts and then colours put together better
left a not so crushed pile of shirts
and 2 neater looking rails.
The top shelf didn't need to be touched at all.
Middle Wardrobe
This one was a bit of a crazy mixture so some things were able to be thrown out and some removed to be put elsewhere leaving room for all the short-sleeved shirts and a few long things.
The top shelf was fine, the shelf below just needed to be rearranged to hold the four pillows for use with the EZ double bed we can add to that room.
The bottom of the wardrobe still holds the grey container as before but Fred's 2 music/sound things which had been placed there (still inside the packing paper from our move to the house) have been taken out and a basket is there now with some gifts for Christmas in it.
Right Wardrobe
You can clearly see the slanted part of the ceiling here as this wall meets the lower wall.
This rail now is neater with the trousers and t shirts and polo shirts.
The top shelf just needed tidying up and still has some space left.
The shelf below it was a real mess with a mixture of travel things and a large box got last Christmas for Fred's belts but then he complained and said the sections of it are too small and the belts will get ruined having to be rolled up tightly. Now that shelf only has 3 containers on it.
The belts are now all on the lower shelf which had originally been a mixture as well, and so messy looking with the hangers.
I need to think more about the belts and see if there will be another solution for them instead of taking up a whole shelf.
Along the lower wall
Left Wardrobe
The left hand rail here had been a mixture of my jackets and Fred's suits but now is better organised with Fred's suits easily reached and our summer jackets in the corner that is harder to get at.
The right rail had too many items crushed together so it now has my dresses.
On the bottom of this section we keep the emergency ladder which can be hooked over the window of the Dressing Room in case of fire. The space in the corner beside it is free - I love to have some free space because inevitably there will be something else needing a home when I tackle the games room.
The shelf at the top is now neater with the use of another 2 grey containers which have summer clothes in them.
Middle Wardrobe
This one was easy to work with very little change at the bottom.
A few clothes removed so rail is not as full.
Top shelf has the first grey container I got and these containers are just brilliant. They are made of material and cardboard and are firm but pliable some have little windows and they come in several shapes and sizes.
I got them on Amazon and this is just one example of them.
Right Wardrobe
Quite a few items were summer clothes so they were packed away in one of the grey containers so no longer too many clothes hanging here.
I found that the slanted roof to this wardrobe was ideal for storing extra hangers so all the hangers making a mess previously in one of the other wardrobes are now neatly placed here on the top shelf along with a containers holding one of my large American Quilts.
My Hair dryer & brushes etc. had always been a problem on the top shelf and now I have them on the bottom and there is a lamp beside them because we keep this for when someone uses this room as a bedroom and need a bedside lamp.
I am looking forward to getting the new carpet for this room now.
And because a lot of the wardrobes still have free space at the bottom I'm considering which types of boxes or containers to get to fit there, and you know how I love Storage boxes!
This sorting was a joy to do because of the decorating having been completed and making everything feel like a fresh start.
Time consuming but counted as FUNWORK because I was happy while doing it.
Labels:
Decorating,
Dressing Room,
funwork,
Homemaking,
housework,
Organising,
storage
Wednesday
3 Sleighs for Christmas - A Dose of Encouragement
Our Christmas Tree was too big.
Well too wide to be precise.
We had bought it about 7 years ago when we lived in Belgium and had more space to have a tall and wide tree.
We really liked it because it was easy to assemble and was prelighted so no fiddling and fighting with strings of lights. The most time would be spent actually putting the decorations on the tree.
But now in our present home we had struggled with not really having enough room for this tree definitely in our lounge but also not really having the proper space for it in our large kitchen with seated area.
Last year we thought too late about trying to find a new slimmer tree but this year on Saturday we decided to go ahead when we saw a slimmer tree very similar in style to our other one. In fact this one was going to be slim enough so that we could put it up in the lounge now that we had the smaller suite.
Last week when I wrote the Wednesday Encouragement post I was disappointed that we hadn't got our tree up yet in the kitchen because we were waiting for the painting to be done and I couldn't start writing about our Tree Decorations as I had hoped but today I can.
So I want to start with the 3 sleighs
On the tree each year since Christmas 1993 we have had these three sleighs.
They are almost identical except for one thing.
They each have the name of one of our children on them.
Fred & I hung them on the tree last night.
As per always my thoughts went back to when I got them.
We were living in the US in Hockessin, a village outside Wilmington in the State of Delaware.
That was where I was introduced to Christmas fairs and Christmas shops and Personalised Christmas Tree Decorations.
I saw the sleighs and remembered the fun our three kids (plus Fred & I) had had in March that year when we had woken up to find 14 inches of Snow at our front door.
After shovelling the driveway a few times and playing around and then in for hot drinks we joined our next door neighbours to race down through our back gardens.
What fun, what laughter, what coldness, but what enjoyment from a simple act.
We really didn't want to stop because we were enjoying this unusual activity.
It was very unusual for us because we had come from Northern Ireland where we rarely see 4 inches of snow let alone 14 and rarely get the chance to even try to slide down a snow slope.
Eventually we had to drag ourselves and the kids inside as it started to get dark and we were concerned about frostbite from those round red patches appearing on our cheeks.
I remember getting these tree decorations at a craft fair a month before Christmas and surprising the children with their special named sleigh for each of them to hang on the tree as the last decorations that year.
Do the children remember that event as distinctly as I do?
I don't think so but they do remember hanging them on the tree for years.
A lot of our tree decorations are individual things we have picked up over the years and not colour co-ordinated to be extremely fashionable and make a glamorous tree. I want to have memories of happy times together as a family or remember friends who may have given us something for our tree.
I want to be able to look at my tree and say thank you to God for the lovely memories and the family and friends that he has put into our lives.
My tree will not be perfect but why should it because nothing can be perfect and in striving for my tree to be perfect I would miss out on remembering the memories and blessings of the past.
There is nothing or no-one perfect in this world except for God the Father, Son & Holy Spirit.
So as I remember my imperfect tree and it's decorations I am going to be thankful to God for my 3 children this Christmas and my husband and all the memories and blessings we have seen together as a family.
Then I will pray for the future members of this family and the future memories to come and the future blessings God will bestow on us all because He loves us even though we are not perfect but just trusting in Him.
These are the things that mean a lot to families at Christmas especially when not all of the family can be together.
This year like last year Linda will not be with us over Christmas time, she will still be in South Korea but her sleigh was put up last night and the boy's sleighs were also put up by Fred and I because they are not here for the decorating of the tree any more.
Even though they have their names on them I believe they are more my special item than theirs because I was the one that chose them,
and
they are staying on my tree, not going with them!
They can wait until they inherit them.
But now in our present home we had struggled with not really having enough room for this tree definitely in our lounge but also not really having the proper space for it in our large kitchen with seated area.
Last year we thought too late about trying to find a new slimmer tree but this year on Saturday we decided to go ahead when we saw a slimmer tree very similar in style to our other one. In fact this one was going to be slim enough so that we could put it up in the lounge now that we had the smaller suite.
Last week when I wrote the Wednesday Encouragement post I was disappointed that we hadn't got our tree up yet in the kitchen because we were waiting for the painting to be done and I couldn't start writing about our Tree Decorations as I had hoped but today I can.
So I want to start with the 3 sleighs
On the tree each year since Christmas 1993 we have had these three sleighs.
They are almost identical except for one thing.
They each have the name of one of our children on them.
Fred & I hung them on the tree last night.
As per always my thoughts went back to when I got them.
We were living in the US in Hockessin, a village outside Wilmington in the State of Delaware.
That was where I was introduced to Christmas fairs and Christmas shops and Personalised Christmas Tree Decorations.
I saw the sleighs and remembered the fun our three kids (plus Fred & I) had had in March that year when we had woken up to find 14 inches of Snow at our front door.
After shovelling the driveway a few times and playing around and then in for hot drinks we joined our next door neighbours to race down through our back gardens.
What fun, what laughter, what coldness, but what enjoyment from a simple act.
We really didn't want to stop because we were enjoying this unusual activity.
It was very unusual for us because we had come from Northern Ireland where we rarely see 4 inches of snow let alone 14 and rarely get the chance to even try to slide down a snow slope.
Eventually we had to drag ourselves and the kids inside as it started to get dark and we were concerned about frostbite from those round red patches appearing on our cheeks.
So here we are again at another Christmas with the memories from 21 years ago.
I remember getting these tree decorations at a craft fair a month before Christmas and surprising the children with their special named sleigh for each of them to hang on the tree as the last decorations that year.
Do the children remember that event as distinctly as I do?
I don't think so but they do remember hanging them on the tree for years.
A lot of our tree decorations are individual things we have picked up over the years and not colour co-ordinated to be extremely fashionable and make a glamorous tree. I want to have memories of happy times together as a family or remember friends who may have given us something for our tree.
I want to be able to look at my tree and say thank you to God for the lovely memories and the family and friends that he has put into our lives.
My tree will not be perfect but why should it because nothing can be perfect and in striving for my tree to be perfect I would miss out on remembering the memories and blessings of the past.
There is nothing or no-one perfect in this world except for God the Father, Son & Holy Spirit.
So as I remember my imperfect tree and it's decorations I am going to be thankful to God for my 3 children this Christmas and my husband and all the memories and blessings we have seen together as a family.
Then I will pray for the future members of this family and the future memories to come and the future blessings God will bestow on us all because He loves us even though we are not perfect but just trusting in Him.
What will your tree be like and will you remember your blessings?
These are the things that mean a lot to families at Christmas especially when not all of the family can be together.
This year like last year Linda will not be with us over Christmas time, she will still be in South Korea but her sleigh was put up last night and the boy's sleighs were also put up by Fred and I because they are not here for the decorating of the tree any more.
Even though they have their names on them I believe they are more my special item than theirs because I was the one that chose them,
and
they are staying on my tree, not going with them!
They can wait until they inherit them.
Sunday
It's God's Love #23
On Sundays I write a short post consisting of a Bible Verse around the topic of God's Love and I would be very pleased if you would come and join me each week.
God's Love
and
the Love of
Jesus
are one and the same Love
and that
Love
is there for us to rest in.
I'm thankful
to know that
and
the Love of
are one and the same Love
and that
Love
is there for us to rest in.
I'm thankful
to know that
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It's God's Love,
joy,
love,
Love of God,
Love of Jesus
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