Sunday

What are you doing for Christmas? Advent 2


This is the 2nd Sunday of Advent

The thing I have already thought about in the previous post is the Hope we have because of Jesus but today I want to consider the    





we have in Him.


So what could be more fitting than singing about Jesus as 
God's Love Gift to us because that is exactly what Jesus is.


The Saving Grace of Jesus.






Do you know this Saving Grace of Jesus?

Have you accepted this Gift of Love from God?


From the passages in my Advent reading plan 
I know that 
Jesus came to destroy the works of satan.
Jesus came to bear witness to the truth.
Jesus came so that we can believe in Him and have life in His name.
Jesus came to reconcile us to God.


Do you know why Jesus came to earth?

Are you glad that Jesus came?








Friday morning was  
"Shopping in our town with our grown up son" time.
Cold, windy & wet day but it's a small town so not that far to walk between car park and shops.
He kept comparing it to the large city he lives in, parking much cheaper here and streets less crowded.
We also got our turkey and ham for Christmas.




Friday afternoon was  
"Shopping in the Christian Bookshop with our grown up son" time.
One and a half hours can pass quickly when we are somewhere like this.
The ICM Bookshop outside Lurgan is enormous.
They also have a good website with great prices and lots of free shipping to anywhere in the UK, so have a look at their site  https://www.icmbooksdirect.co.uk/


Friday evening was  
"Shopping in the Sprucefield Shopping Centre with our grown up son" time.
A few last minute presents, and a nice wander around in the festive but not-too-busy shops.

These are some of the highlights of our Christmases now - having our family come from far as well as near.
The special times of love and togetherness that we miss.


Of course as usual I'm doing Christmas songs with the kids at church and we like to sing this simple one about God's Love



'Tis Christmas, 'Tis Christmas
The Christmas Bells ring
The Birthday of Jesus our Saviour and king
Tis Christmas, Tis Christmas
Our Bible recalls 
The Birthday of Jesus 
God's Love Gift to all. 


You can find the words & chords of this song 
also actions, sing-a-long video 
and free printables at









After a day like that we need to remember that shopping is not the main thing that's important at this time of the year






We need to make sure that Jesus Christ is still in our Christmas, just like the words of this song 



Unto you is born this day a Saviour
A baby boy was found there in a manger
The blessed truth of Christmas let us hear
Let's put Christ back into Christmas this year


Christmas is the birthday of our King
The greatest gift of all He came to bring
He's the Prince of Peace let's show Him that we care
Let's put Christ back into Christmas this year


On this day the wise men saw a star
They followed it with gifts and travelled far
And praised the baby Jesus lying there
Let's put Christ back into Christmas this year


Let within your heart His praises ring
And celebrate the day our Saviour came
May peace on earth at Christmas time appear
Let's put Christ back into Christmas this year
Let's put Christ back into Christmas this year



Are you making sure that Christ is still in your Christmas this year?


Walking along the promenade in Newcastle, Co. Down is not the thing I would normally plan to be doing just a few days before Christmas.


Two things happened within the last few days that meant us taking the half hour drive to Newcastle one day last week and I was looking forward to walking the promenade while there.  However it was just too cold and wet and blowy that we didn't have our walk.

Instead we just sat and admired the seaside view for a while and took a few pictures and short videos of the waves.




A great example of the nature that God has created.


One of the books I got in the ICM Bookshop yesterday was for the younger kids in our Sunday School.

It can be read to young children and then as they get a bit older they can read it for themselves.




This book has had great reviews by parents which is a very good recommendation for it and is unusually written by a Theologian, James Hamilton.  He wrote it primarily for his son but was then encouraged to get it published which he then did through Christian Focus.


On the journey back today we discussed the presents for Christmas.

It has been agreed that I have nearly everything sorted out fine now.
I just hope the recipients of these presents agree with us.


Were you able to take time today to appreciate God and His creation amid the hustle and bustle of Christmas presents?














What are you doing for Christmas? Advent 1

       
            


Today I am starting a short Series on 

     "What are you doing for Christmas?"





I love the way Advent starts on a Sunday but this year it is also the start of December and for anyone who knows me really well they will understand that I like things to start at proper sort of starting times, and the first of the month is definitely a proper sort of starting time.




Right now I find that I keep getting emails from different retailers telling me about the most important things about Christmas and what I really should be interested in buying.
           

Well they just don't tell me anything about the real event we are leading up to during Advent.

They might mention Santa but they hardly ever mention Jesus and when do, they never mention that Jesus is the real life and soul of Christmas.  

He's the Reason for Christmas.






I am also very hurt when I see Christmas cards which say "Season's Greetings" because they leave Christmas out so they are leaving Jesus out and anyway I could send a card saying that to someone at any time of the year because we are always in one of the four seasons of the year.
          
    It makes no sense to me at all.



So what am I doing for Christmas today?

I'm finishing off our Christmas Letter and writing Christmas cards for our friends who live all around the world, because I need to get them posted off tomorrow.
I'm also remembering that Advent is about preparing for the coming of Jesus as we celebrate on Christmas and that Advent is about preparing for the time when Jesus will return again.


How am I doing this?

I'm starting a new Bible Reading Plan with You Version called  
Good News of Great Joy 





And I'm focusing on Jesus who is my Saviour and the Saviour of the world and not focusing on the Season that the world focuses on because the world has 
no hope in that Season 
but I have Hope in Jesus who is the real
                                                      
Reason for the Season


In the first week of the reading plan I mentioned above I will be reading about how

  • We need to be prepared by preparing our hearts for what God is going to do
  • We have Hope because we are part of God's Plan
  • We have Hope because God has provided our Salvation in Jesus
  • We have Hope because God will provide for us to be in the right place with Him
  • We have hope because Jesus came to earth as one of us
  • We have hope because Jesus brings Peace
  • We have hope because Jesus is The Messiah



I found this short video which also links in with the Hope I have been talking about






I am so thankful we can have this Hope are you?




During Advent I am going to write about what I am doing for Christmas. 










 "Big Christmas Event"  

or the  

"Festive treats in store"  


Not for me.











    A Clown called Dario - Xtra Special Day





    We have various friends throughout the world mostly because we have lived in America and Belgium as well as the UK but also because we have been involved in different Christian Outreach Programs where people from various countries have come to stay with us while they do evangelistic work in association with whichever church we have been attending.







    This week there was a solitary visitor to our church all the way from Italy to help with our outreach work during this month.  

    He is called Dario and he is a professional clown.







    He came to NI to work with children in Lurgan for a week.



    Saturday Night we met him as Dario and not "Dario the Clown" while he explained how he came to be a clown and how God was working in his life.








    Sunday Morning he came to our morning service at church and centred his actions and words on how God loves us, using imaginary flowers, a multi coloured piece of material, balloons, a suitcase and a young 9 year old boy he picked out of the congregation.








    At the end of the service he made balloon animals, swords and hats for the children and they all got their photograph taken with him.








    He even made a hat for me especially to match my cardigan.








    Then to finish off Fred and I had our photo taken with him too.








    Sunday Evening he was with another church who had joined with us to bring Dario over from Italy while we had a special Gospel message more for adults.








    Monday Morning & Afternoon he was doing an an assembly and workshops in one of the primary schools followed by our After School Kids Club in another Primary School. 

    This time he had an object like a feather duster.

    He taught us how to greet a clown sitting down (because it involved lifting your right leg and various other precarious movements and he didn't want anyone to fall over), juggled with 3 balls and then explained how we should pray to God when we cannot do something because God has promised to help us and God had helped him to learn how to juggle with juggling clubs when he had found this very difficult and of course he enlisted the help of several willing volunteers.


    Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday & Friday were also spent in Schools doing assemblies and workshops with the children



    Thursday Evening was a special show in the Town Hall open to any of the children in the town of Lurgan, the hall was full of kids and parents and we had a fun-filled hour together with Dario instructing the children in many things such as how to greet a clown, how to spin plates, walk a tightrope and to know that with Jesus we can do all things.









    Of course the balloons made an appearance so that Dario could make hearts for the the leaders of the churches who had hosted him.






    Sunday Morning saw Dario at the other church again.



    Sunday Evening we were delighted to have Dario with us again where he reminded us all that we are fearfully and wonderfully made by God, using balloons, a wig, a tutu and mime.



    Thank you Dario for joining with us and teaching the children more about God.


    Thank you God for your love for us, for helping us in all things, for creating us so uniquely and for making Dario such a caring clown.







    Have you ever had a clown at your church?

    Have you ever met a Christian Clown?

    Are you thankful for God's love and for different ways to tell others of His love?





    Wednesday

    The Waterwheel - A Dose of Encouragement


            Some years ago a friend of ours was going through a very hard time in her life.  


    She came to stay with us for a couple of weeks and needed a lot of understanding, sympathy and encouragement to help her see that she was loved.




            
    One Sunday morning when we took her to church with us there was a time of prayer and ministry for individuals and my husband Fred asked her to go forward for prayer for God to bless her.  

    I stood beside her and prayed that God would use someone there to really pray into her specific situation and that did happen as the Holy Spirit revealed to the people there that she had a great hurt to deal with.  



    Then God showed me a picture of a waterwheel turning slowly round 
    on the side of an old mill. 



    As the wheel turned the sections of the wheel were filled up with water and this turned the wheel round and round.

    This waterwheel was moving very slowly and we could think that it was moving so slowly that it would not make any difference to anything.  But something happened as the water was continually flowing through that wheel and turning it - there was energy created.  Even though the water was not very forceful and moving slowly through the wheel, the mill was still receiving power. 







    Of course we would think that the mill required either a swift flowing current or a good head of water and with all the sections of the wheel intact the water would then provide the power that was needed.  Also if there were sections of that wheel missing it would be noticeable in the working of the mill. 

    However that wheel was gradually going round and round and increasing in speed as it was letting the water do the work it was meant to do.



    Sometimes we need to remember the waterwheel



    Our friend needed to allow God to keep her in the flow of His love and care and settle in the security of knowing that He has enough love to encourage and keep her going. 

    She needed to remember what she had once known but was forgetting to hold on to. She needed to remember that God has promised His Holy Spirit to each of us who have trusted in His Son, who have truly believed that Jesus died in our place, taking our sins on Himself.

    When we acknowledge the role The Holy Spirit wants to have in our lives then we will be like the waterwheel gaining strength and power and being used to help others as well as ourselves.

    For our friend the hurts might have seemed like they were almost immobilising her and she might have thought she could not cope but with God she could count on the fact that all He did by the work of His Holy spirit would matter and He would help her cope with it all no matter how long it would take.

    Sometimes I can feel the same way and need to remember that waterwheel myself.









    Monday

    #Bigblackwedding - Xtra Special Day


    Monday 28th October 2013  was the wedding of our son Daniel.






    So what is this #Bigblackwedding all about?


    Well our surname is Black and our new daughter-in-law Suzie was so looking forward to becoming Mrs Black that she referred to the wedding as the big black wedding and then they decided to hashtag it and all their friends could use this to post pictures of the event on twitter, facebook, instagram and pinterest.





    Suzie also got the cake topping specially made and it was simply the words  

    Mr & Mrs Black.


    It was obvious to us for quite some time that the two of them were really looking forward to getting married and this was also obvious to everyone throughout the church ceremony and the rest of the day as they were so relaxed and happy together.
    (It was also very clear to all of us who had to listen to Daniel when he woke up on Monday morning and came dancing and singing into the kitchen)

    It was very special for Fred & I to see our son so happy and to be adding a new daughter to our family.

    Our other son Jonathan preached the sermon at the wedding (mostly based on Song of Song 8 v 6).

    Our daughter Linda read Psalm 121

    Our nephew Glen was best man (he and Daniel have been best friends forever - well since Daniel was 7 months old and Glen was born).


    Everything else was done by other family & friends with Suzie's brother praying the final prayer of blessing over them, so it was very much a family and friends affair.


    Later Linda caught the bouquet but has since returned to South Korea and had to leave it with me so our lounge is well decorated from flowers etc. from the wedding.






    Now Mr & Mrs Daniel Black are off on their honeymoon and Mr & Mrs Fred Black are still trying to sort out their house from the whirlwind of recent events but what is a bit of a mess in your home compared to the happiness and joy in your family.


    We are very grateful to God who has been at the centre of our marriage for 36 years 
    and who we pray will be always at the centre of this new marriage between 
    Daniel & Suzie.





    Little Joe - Book Review



    I was privileged to get an ebook copy of this book from the publishers and read it during the past week.


    Little Joe





    Synopsis


    When Little Joe Stout survives the car accident that took his parents’ lives, he is sent to live with his maternal grandparents in the small town of Round Rock, Tennessee. Orphaned and missing his Texas home, Little Joe is reluctant to adapt. But his grandparents, especially his grandmother, are up to the challenge of raising him despite their own struggles. Soon, childhood friendships are forged in the oddball duo of Sugar and Bobby, and—with the help of a new canine companion—Little Joe begins to see that his new home offers the comfort and love he thought was lost forever.


    Set against the drama of World War II and the first sparks of the civil rights movement, Little Joe’s new home is a microcosm of America in the 1940s. A frightening incident with a Chinese motorist traveling on the wrong side of town, the migration of troops across the countryside, and a frank discussion of Jim Crow laws are just a few of the local events mirroring the radio broadcasts that bring the news of the day into his grandmother’s kitchen.


    Little Joe begins a four-part series from Michael E. Glasscock III that explores the intricate social cloth of Round Rock, Tennessee.








    My Thoughts


    Well the first thing I need to say is that to start with I thought this was not really my type of book but wanted to read something a bit different from usual and so I was prepared to read this over a longer period of time than normal and probably read another book at the same time but boy did I get a surprise.

                    I was hooked from the first few pages.

    This was so well written and descriptive that I was in that farm alongside them, loving the characters and laughing at the events that took place. I would definitely recommend this book to anyone.

    The book brought real life to life, not skipping over the sad areas of life and not making everything work out perfectly but showing the true love of family for each other and care and responsibility towards friends and neighbours.

    I read it in just 3 days, and would have finished it all in one day except I did have other things that needed my time.

    I am already looking forward to the next book in the series and will review that later too.

    Go on and try it, its a relaxing and enjoyable read but at the same time will make you think about life today.










    Little Joe  by  Michael E. Glasscock  III     http://www.michaeleglasscockiii.com/

    Book 1 in the Round Rock Series

    Published by Greenleaf Book Group Press    

    Released in June 2013








    Wednesday

    A VERY IMPORTANT POST-IT! - Coffee & Conversation



    I have a small post-it sticking to the bottom left hand corner of the second computer screen in my study.


    Just as a reminder any time I feel like a snack.







    You see little snacks like an aero biscuit, small fudge bar, breakaway etc. are all around 100 calories and if I succumb to one of these then it would take me 2,000 steps to burn it off.


    This little Post-it reminds me of how many steps it will take to burn off 100 calories.






    Even little tubs of ice-cream and mousses from Weight Watchers are around the same amount of calories so again I would need to walk 2,000 steps to burn those off.


    This little Post-it keeps me motivated.


    I like to read & at the same time walk around my kitchen which I'm very thankful is long enough to do this and not be going round in circles and getting dizzy 
    (which can happen to me easily and then set off my vertigo).  


    So one day I thought I should just work out how long it takes to walk 2,000 steps to burn off my 100 calories.

    This is what I found

    100 steps takes 1 min
    so
    200 steps would take 2 mins
    so
    2000 steps would take 2 x 10 = 20 mins


    provided I don't get interrupted or get tired of walking or come to the end of a chapter (when I often think I should now go do some housework  -  this doesn't actually make me stop too often) .


    So just think  20 mins of walking to get rid of those calories you ate in that little snack.







    Of course you could do it in 15 mins if you walk very briskly but I don't want to do that while I'm reading.


    I am always hearing/seeing/reading that we should walk 10,000 steps per day just to keep at our present weight.


    So for me

    That would be 20 x 5 = 100 mins of walking every day


    I'm trying to do 12,000 steps a day plus some exercise because I want to continue to gradually lose weight.


    So every day I would need to spend 20 x 6 = 120 mins walking


    That is 2 whole hours taken up walking every day



    This little Post-it keeps me motivated.


    The Big Question then is   -   Is it Worth it?


    You see I use this time each day to read my bible and other Christian novels and uplifting books.

    SO

    I say YES!


    And a very cheap form of exercise too!

        

    Would you say YES?


    Maybe you would like to start walking too?  and reading?


    Or maybe you have a very important post-it too?






    Tuesday

    Misery Loves Company - Book Review

    I was privileged to get an ebook reader copy of this book from the publishers and read it during the past week.




    Synopsis:


            Don’t tell me it’s terrifying. Terrify me.

    Filled with grief, Jules Belleno rarely leaves the house since her husband’s death while on duty as a police officer. Other than the reviews Jules writes on her blog, she has little contact with the outside world.

    But one day when she ventures out to the local grocery store, Jules bumps into a fellow customer . . . and recognizes him as her favorite author, Patrick Reagan. Jules gushes and thoroughly embarrasses herself before Regan graciously talks with her.

    And that’s the last thing she remembers—until she wakes up in a strange room with a splitting headache. She’s been kidnapped. And what she discovers will change everything she believed about her husband’s death . . . her career . . . and her faith. 





    While I was reading this book I thought I couldn't relate the title of the book to the story I was reading but as at other times I know that I may have to wait until I finish the book and then I get it!

           And yes I got it!

    Not having read anything by this author before, I knew I would not be expecting a certain type of writing style or plot formula and it was nice to just read and enjoy the story as it developed in the way the author had intended it to and not the way I would be expecting.

    Some of the characters were a little typical but not one-dimensional and the development of the storyline in the two separate ways within the story worked quite well.

    Twice I thought I knew what was going to happen and I was wrong so definitely not a predictable storyline.  I enjoyed the book as a relaxing read but also in parts of it I found I was drawn in to consider how I would react if I had to face some of the issues presented.

    Taking into consideration the fact that this was written by a woman and the main character is a woman I needed to decide if this was going to be a book that would only be categorised as a women's book.  It is not action packed but action and suspense are there and the fact that the rest of the main characters are male I have to say that I would not categorize it as such.

    Within the storyline the subject of happy endings or real life, possibly unhappy endings came up but I will not give spoil it by telling you what type of ending this resulted in, just read it and see for yourself.






    Misery Loves Company  by  Rene Gutteridge  www.renegutteridge.com 

    Published by Tyndale  www.tyndale.com 

    Released in August 2013